I was told yesterday that I am not allowed to tell customers that I wear hosiery. I agreed to it, because I want to keep my job. I thought about it this morning, and became mad. Read the remainder of my post to see what I think.
It seems so unjustly discriminatory.
A customer complained to the department store that I was telling people that I wore hosiery. When my manager told me that, I was sad, sympathetic, and disappointed.
This morning, I began to play in my head how I would go about telling people about the different hosiery products. I think that the best way to create credibility is to say,
I know somebody who wears., and then just go on talking. However, I do not think that will work well. I am humiliated when women think that I know less about hosiery than they do.
This made me mad. The department store took the side of the customer, and reinforced mainstream misconceptions. I feel like crying foul, and filing a complaint about discrimination.
Do any of you have any experience in filing complaints on discrimination?
Another thing that bothers me is the fact that women are still so stuck in the past. Women, of all people, should know what it means to fight hard for the freedom to wear certain types of clothing. To know that somebody would complain in a way that limits men's fashion freedom is really offensive to me.
My long time readers have known that I have fought long and hard to be gentle in my approach to bringing this trend into the mainstream world. I never intended to force myself on anybody, but because of that woman, I now feel aggressive. I just wanted people to be happy.
I think that the first step is protecting my job. I will show up for work without raising any issues, for the first several months.
The next step would be to look over the company's policies to see how they handle discrimination.
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